Dealing With A Relationship Breakup Top 3 Ways To Mend Your Broken Heart Fast

Author: admin Date: Tue, 19 Jul 2010 16:52:24

Dealing with a relationship breakup will surely be one of the toughest things youll be faced with in your life and while we dont wish it on anyone, sometimes being prepared can get you through the most difficult emotional stage of your life with ease.
If you are in a situation right now having to deal with a relationship breakup then we really feel for you and want to give you hope that it will not be a long term thing. There are three main things that can dull the pain of the break up. They are:

1. You need to face your emotions and not push them to the back of your mind. Doing this means just delaying the inevitable because at some stage you will need to deal with them. One way to face and release them is by writing out how you feel and then reading them out loud. Make sure you are in your own space though.
Understanding emotions is not just going to help you but a powerful way of getting through the pain of hurt as quickly as possible. To deal with relationship breakups, knowing that its a natural process that happens in a least five stages will be powerful in coming out of this a stronger person.


2. Dont stay alone for too long. Its natural to want to find your own space especially if you are the one who has been dumped from the relationship and feel sorry for yourself. Thats okay but do this just to release emotion. Surround yourself with people in your life you trust and respect. They will act as a cushion between what youre feeling and the pain.
Friends and family will also help you to focus on other things. Taking your mind off your ex is vital when you need to deal with breakups. Joining social networking groups where you can interact with others going through the same thing is excellent therapy.


3. As hard as this may be you have to begin to move on. Its almost attractive to want to stay in selfpity and blame the world and we feel for you. But to beat this, show your ex you are a better person than they thought, you need to look to the future and move onto the next phase of your life.
There are five strong stages of emotion youll go through when dealing with your breakup, denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance and they are necessary in the healing process. By using the three tips in this article to tackle them you will move on a lot faster and suffer through the pain of hurt for a lot less time.

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